What is a man ho?

For all those boys out there: so when someone calls you a “man whore,” what does it exactly mean? It means there’s a vibe that only females can detect. And usually the guy is GOOD LOOKING. YAY? Or NAY? I’m not sure if that should be taken as a compliment. Guys who are considered a man whore will therefore only attract lady whores… But, the girls they really want in the end are the good, pure girls. Unfortunately they mostly likely won’t go for you. According to a friend of mine: A GOOD GIRL, she tells me “I mean come on, why would I want someone who is likely to be tainted and contaminated?” I'm not saying though that all good looking peeps are sluts. THATS DEF NOT TRUE...
If you know me, you know that I love finding cool quotes. “Opposites attract” is one that I cannot agree with. I believe that people that are similar in personality with each other will most likely get together and probably stay together happily forever. So you know in movies where the badass guy gets the good girl? WRONG… this is only temporary.
“Some burn hot and fast, but don’t last very long
Some burn a while, but don’t throw off much heat
Some smolder beautifully for a long time.”
-cadillac commercial
Haha but one more question…..
Whats a good girl?
“Good girls are bad girls that never get caught.”
-anonymous

It is better to be looked over than overlooked.

HEP ME!

Im miserable when there is no conversation.Like when there are people in a room but they don't talk. When you ask them questions but they answer with one word comments like, "No thanks" or "Okay"; thats it! and its driving me insane. I can't go 10 minutes without interaction; someone talking to me face to face or on the phone or even online is okay. But my brain needs some kind of stimulation....or else my brain will start rotting inside out. I guess I can talk to myself..Im going loco.

old peeps

Today I went to souplantation and there was a lot of old people. If you know me, I LOVE old people. Maybe it’s because I grew up with my grandparents but their presence truly make me happy. I saw this grandpa there who came alone and he had suspenders and gigantic glasses reading the newspaper and drinking soup. :) Even when I was a kid I wanted to make a wonderful retirement home just for them. Heehee But I know, there are people out there who mistreat older people just because of the fact that in society today, people tend to not care about or not value those who no longer work. People see them as “unproductive” just because they are retired. This is not TOTALLY wrong wrong wrong. Seniors are wise and know so much because they were part of history. They are the key to stop history from repeating itself. We can learn so much about life from their experiences...so dont take your grandparents for granted. Cheers to seniors!

"You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother."
-Albert Einstein

oh by the way....
http://www.thestar.com/living/article/669304
teehee i just added all the "sahra kim's" that i could find on facebook ^.^

To Georgy

This guy….. is a guy who still will love me even if I fail :), the guy who doesn’t get me nervous when I’m driving :), the guy who cares when I’m hurting :), the guy who never hangs up without saying I love you :), the guy that thinks cuddling is the best feeling in the world :), the guy who never looks at other girls :), the guy who worries when your home too late, the guy who loves 2 am night talks :), the guy who enjoys blowing raspberries on your belly :), the guy who thinks he’s allergic to everything I make for him >:[, the guy who brings you food when you say your not hungry :), the guy who gives you most of the pillow at sleepy time :), the guy who loves to make me laugh :), the guy who showers me with kisses :), the guy who dares to challenge you (like when you have to go take a pee) :), the guy who would play and tease you even when he’s super tired to the point where his eyes look soo damn red it looks like he smoked a shitload :), the guy who will always hold you super close :)the guy who makes me a better person :)
That’s the guy I have and I love the most. :)
Happy 5 months love

"When two hearts race, both win."
-dove chocolate

These days I am so thankful there are things like the internet, aim and facebook. This is how you NETWORK , get to know people better without worrying if a piece of spinach is in yo teeth (or in my case braces), and talk to your loved ones while they away cough cough* Georgy (since my phone is a piece of shit)
Life before the computer:
“ Remember when memory was something you lost with age, an application was for employment, a keyboard was a piano, a web was a spider’s home, a virus was the flu, a hard drive was a long trip on the road, and if you had a 3 ½ inch floppy…..you just hoped nobody found out.

“
hakuna matata

I feel like these days’ people are just too scared and too paranoid. People don’t do the things they love because they too scared. Being worried about the future is a good thing, no doubt, but is it worth giving up ALL the pleasures and loves in life? Nope I don’t think so. Maybe things should not be kept in excess. Like drinking a moderate amount of coke. Or drinking a moderate amount of beer etc etc …..don’t worry ladies it won’t make you THAT fat.
"You can live to be a hundred if you give up all the things that make you want to live to be a hundred." - Woody Allen

you know that myth that girls plan their wedding since they are like 2 years old?
well honestly....

its true :D teeeheeeehheee

do you believe in magic?

So I decided that I was gonna change my major from bio to psychology this summer. I’ve heard a lot of peeps say “I’m not going to be a psych major because what would I do with a psych major degree after I’m done with college?” A lot of people discourage me but I want to be a psychologist. Back in highschool I took a psychology ap class that changed my life for the better. Medical doctors fix the body: anything physical and can be fixed in a logical way. Psychologists fix the mind: change the way people think; more abstract-ish. Doctors can fix heart issues, psychologists fix issues of the heart. If people knew certain things about the great powers of the mind, it could change a lot in your life like prevent arguments and misunderstandings that can be poisonous to your relationships. Do you dream of overcoming your fear of spiders? Do you wish your could be more popular? Do you want to become happier? These all seem like things you can accomplish if you rub a magic lamp. But in fact, it all starts in your mind. You can be your own genie and grant your own wishes: BUT only if you learn to think the right way. I bet you can even learn to make the guy or girl of your dreams fall for you. Wink wink ;) It MAGIC minus the hocus pocus stuff
"If you wanna be with me, baby
There's a price you pay
I'm a genie in a bottle
You gotta rub me the right way
If you wanna be with me
I can make your wish come true
You gotta make a big impression
I gotta like what you do "
-christina aguilara

Things to do before I die

1.) Watch the Olympic games LIVE.
2.) Get a New Year's kiss on Times Square.
3.) bungee jump
4.) Sleep in a tent outside
5.) Meet an angel
6.) Sleep under the starts
7.) Stay over a haunted house at night time
8.) Eat a habanero pepper
9.) Be a bridesmaid as many times as I can
to be continued... :)

REALLY?

Sometimes I am shocked about how racist some people are. Realistically, people are always going to prejudge. It’s what people do and it’s unavoidable in life. We treat people a certain way based on the way they look, their race and their gender. It’s unfortunately part of being a human being. I mean evolutionary, that’s how animals survived and thrived in the past. But then again even animals don’t treat other animals like shit because they are different “species” or race. And yet the most well developed, smartest creatures in the world-human beings- are capable of doing this. But then again you can’t blame them either, because people aren’t born to hate people who are different than themselves. They are LEARNED to hate. Blame it on the parents.
“My mouth may say racists things, but my penis is a humanitarian.”
-dave chapelle

:D funniest convo with ANDY FANG!

(long time ago)
sahra: pocahontas
andy: beast from beauty and the beast

Ocan Der S (9:38:52 PM): im scared
Ocan Der S (9:38:55 PM): i gotta learn
Ocan Der S (9:39:03 PM): i dont wanna turn out... like u
chingooSAHRAsays (9:39:14 PM): hahahahhahahahha
Ocan Der S (9:39:16 PM): a bio major that wants to be a farmer pssshaw
chingooSAHRAsays (9:39:23 PM): i dont want to be a farmer
chingooSAHRAsays (9:39:27 PM): i want to be a fish farmer
Ocan Der S (9:39:29 PM): LOLLL
chingooSAHRAsays (9:39:32 PM): there is a huge difference mister!
Ocan Der S (9:39:40 PM): soo ur like
Ocan Der S (9:39:42 PM): aqua animals
Ocan Der S (9:39:50 PM): instead of land
Ocan Der S (9:40:01 PM): wait... how do u become a fish farmer?
Ocan Der S (9:40:06 PM): how do u milk a fish?
chingooSAHRAsays (9:40:21 PM): you tell me
chingooSAHRAsays (9:40:25 PM): i want to be a mermaid but not ariel
chingooSAHRAsays (9:40:38 PM): sariel
Ocan Der S (9:40:57 PM): ariel is HOT
Ocan Der S (9:41:04 PM): shes the hottest disney character by farrr
chingooSAHRAsays (9:41:13 PM): NAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWww
Ocan Der S (9:41:15 PM): wait... i mean pochahantas hahaha
chingooSAHRAsays (9:41:22 PM): no shes not the hottest either
Ocan Der S (9:41:26 PM): then who??
chingooSAHRAsays (9:41:28 PM): belle is
Ocan Der S (9:41:35 PM): f'reall?
chingooSAHRAsays (9:41:35 PM): ur wifey cuz your the beast remeber
Ocan Der S (9:41:44 PM): oooh yeahh totally
Ocan Der S (9:41:51 PM): dang i have it goood
chingooSAHRAsays (9:42:29 PM): hahahah
chingooSAHRAsays (9:42:31 PM): sexy beast
chingooSAHRAsays (9:42:33 PM): grrrrrrrrrrrr!
Ocan Der S (9:43:33 PM): i dont have a wife that wants to be a guy, or wants to have legs, or wants to wake up, or is pursued by a crazy witch, i have a wife that loves me for who i am
Ocan Der S (9:43:35 PM): yayayaya
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:02 PM): HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:04 PM): yeyeyeyeye
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:18 PM): well i have a guy whos white
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:19 PM): and hot
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:24 PM): and wears blue
chingooSAHRAsays (9:44:31 PM): HA!
Ocan Der S (9:45:40 PM): yeah... but his people think you are like a slave
Ocan Der S (9:45:43 PM): and want ur land
Ocan Der S (9:45:44 PM): and kill you
Ocan Der S (9:45:46 PM): ^.^
chingooSAHRAsays (9:45:51 PM): O_O
chingooSAHRAsays (9:46:04 PM): i aint no slave im exotic
chingooSAHRAsays (9:46:07 PM): and i
chingooSAHRAsays (9:46:09 PM): have corn
chingooSAHRAsays (9:46:19 PM): and im a effing princess goddamit
Ocan Der S (9:46:35 PM): oh yeah... princess, u live a magnificent life
Ocan Der S (9:46:38 PM): u have like
Ocan Der S (9:46:40 PM): a hut.
Ocan Der S (9:46:44 PM): and beads for a crown
Ocan Der S (9:46:52 PM): and no shoes
Ocan Der S (9:46:59 PM): and clothes made out of hide
Ocan Der S (9:47:07 PM): WOW u really are living the liffee
chingooSAHRAsays (9:47:41 PM): well im not a brat that lives in a giant castle like a loner HAHAHAHAAHHA
Ocan Der S (9:48:13 PM): yeah.. well
Ocan Der S (9:48:29 PM): its cold where i am from
Ocan Der S (9:48:46 PM): and i have talkin plates and candles to keep me company
Ocan Der S (9:48:47 PM): OK???
Ocan Der S (9:48:50 PM): what do u have? a tree? pssshhh
Ocan Der S (9:49:01 PM): i'll cut that crap down
chingooSAHRAsays (9:49:12 PM): talking to inanimate objects is a sign of schizophrenia
Ocan Der S (9:49:27 PM): oh yeah huh?
Ocan Der S (9:49:30 PM): i never thot of that
Ocan Der S (9:49:33 PM): >.<<
Ocan Der S (9:49:35 PM): well....
Ocan Der S (9:49:41 PM): ur gonna die early
Ocan Der S (9:49:49 PM): either in a tragic canoe death or skin cancer
Ocan Der S (9:49:57 PM): while i go crazy and be happy in my own little world
chingooSAHRAsays (9:50:11 PM): well you end up with long hair in the end
chingooSAHRAsays (9:50:14 PM): whihc is extremely
chingooSAHRAsays (9:50:17 PM): unattractive
chingooSAHRAsays (9:50:24 PM): by the way belle is a slut
Ocan Der S (9:50:36 PM): OH HECK NO GURRRL
Ocan Der S (9:50:45 PM): u think john smith
Ocan Der S (9:50:50 PM): is not a pimp?
Ocan Der S (9:50:53 PM): that foo
Ocan Der S (9:51:04 PM): have u heard of all those ppl being called john smith?
Ocan Der S (9:51:09 PM): its not just a common name
chingooSAHRAsays (9:51:11 PM): he aint no pimp
Ocan Der S (9:51:11 PM): its the same guy
Ocan Der S (9:51:14 PM): with all the girls
chingooSAHRAsays (9:51:23 PM): O_O
chingooSAHRAsays (9:51:35 PM): well who is named "the beast"anyway
chingooSAHRAsays (9:51:39 PM): you dont even have a real name
Ocan Der S (9:52:16 PM): dude thats my nickname
Ocan Der S (9:52:18 PM): im soo awesome
Ocan Der S (9:52:23 PM): that i have my own nickname
Ocan Der S (9:52:24 PM): like...
Ocan Der S (9:52:25 PM): spiderman
Ocan Der S (9:52:27 PM): or hulk
Ocan Der S (9:52:31 PM): the rock
chingooSAHRAsays (9:52:52 PM): what super power does beast have
chingooSAHRAsays (9:52:55 PM): claws?
chingooSAHRAsays (9:53:05 PM): your gonna scratch me to death
chingooSAHRAsays (9:53:09 PM): wow im scared
Ocan Der S (9:53:40 PM): yeah well i wont even want to touch u
Ocan Der S (9:53:48 PM): im scared i might get like
Ocan Der S (9:53:50 PM): AIDS
Ocan Der S (9:53:51 PM): or something
chingooSAHRAsays (9:53:57 PM): 0_0
chingooSAHRAsays (9:54:02 PM): i dont want fleas
Ocan Der S (9:54:03 PM): ur so primitive
Ocan Der S (9:54:05 PM): LOL
Ocan Der S (9:54:07 PM): hahaha
Ocan Der S (9:54:15 PM): yeah well
Ocan Der S (9:54:19 PM): i got K9 advantic
Ocan Der S (9:54:22 PM): *advantix
Ocan Der S (9:54:26 PM): so i got that taken care of
Ocan Der S (9:54:29 PM): AIDS on the other hand
Ocan Der S (9:54:31 PM): is not cured
chingooSAHRAsays (9:54:52 PM): primitive???!!! you havent even evolved into a human yet
Ocan Der S (9:55:13 PM): HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Ocan Der S (9:55:19 PM): noo i was cursed
Ocan Der S (9:55:23 PM): and turned into a beast
chingooSAHRAsays (9:58:12 PM): sure thats what you said
Ocan Der S (9:58:45 PM): LOL
Ocan Der S (9:58:50 PM): yeah well....
Ocan Der S (9:58:53 PM): well
Ocan Der S (9:59:05 PM): well
Ocan Der S (9:59:29 PM): well ur future generation will end up on little reservations and work in casinos
Ocan Der S (9:59:33 PM): talk about a sad lineage
chingooSAHRAsays (10:00:03 PM): casinos make bank
chingooSAHRAsays (10:00:12 PM): and illbuy a bigger better castle than yours
chingooSAHRAsays (10:00:16 PM): andit will be more colorful
chingooSAHRAsays (10:00:20 PM): and better
Ocan Der S (10:03:40 PM): pssshawww
Ocan Der S (10:03:45 PM): ok u win
chingooSAHRAsays (10:03:59 PM): yay
Ocan Der S (10:03:59 PM): what do u want?
Ocan Der S (10:04:02 PM): ur land back?
Ocan Der S (10:04:03 PM): hahahaha
chingooSAHRAsays (10:04:06 PM): i want a prize
Ocan Der S (10:04:06 PM): OWNNED

MY outlook

This is in response to trees blog.
She mentioned this thing called a bell curve and how life is similar to this graph. You start slow, you reach a peak and everything starts going downhill. In other words, you prepare the unavoidable worst when you hit the bottom. and it kinda hurts when you hit the bottom.

But realize you can't always have this way of thinking.
If you think this way, you can't enjoy the pleasures of life. Why fall in love if you know your gonna hit the bottom one day? In fact, why live if you know that one day your just gonna die?
Alll this is gonna do is prevent you from going out there and loving every bit of life.
Life is about experience and you should always expect the best. Sometimes, yes you will fall and it will hurt, but its otay, you can get back up and do it again
“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land amongst the stars.”
No doubt, I'd still ride that roller coaster :D
and then ride it again
and again
and again
till i puke my brains out
maybe ill regret it then?
no.